Quote from domestic:
you are suggesting a move to a lower cost rent, and ditch the car? if he does not get rid of the car , savings would only be $10 plus insurance. impossible to be without a car, young and in connecticut. then add metro north.
what would the rent be in westport anyway? i own some two families on spruce street in southport(not wesport,but close.) i receive $1600 each. cheaper than westport and not the greatest homes either. i could work with this if the difference was $700; but again highly doubt it. the only fixed cost he can really go fter is rent.
No, I never said "ditch" the car.
It would not be very realistic to not have your own transportation, especially during inclimate weather, and a winter that usually includes snow. To me, the train makes sense to use for a number of reasons, not just purely financial.
The housing in Westport is in fact cheaper (especially if you get a cottage or a share in a house near the beach). The social life is also much better in Westport as well. And don't forget that Longshore Country Club is PUBLIC, not private.
When you are working as many hours as he is, the "ease" of lifestyle is indeed an important factor, especially in his time off from work, whether you are talking about the weekends or in the late daylight savings hours of the weekdays when you can still enjoy the beach community, rollerblading, bike riding, etc.
My guess is that he is doing a lot of "grunt" work at this hedge-fund position. $60,000 is a decent start, but it's probably more of a "proving" ground for him in that first year with the fund's senior managers. Get thru the first year, and then after "proving" yourself he can negotiate his skill set into higher compensation heading into that second year.
As a result, I would place a fair amount of weight on one's comfort level and ability to maintain a positive mental outlook. Making some great friendships will be important to that end, especially in the Winter months when things get pretty dead and the beach scene is gone. With "younger" crowds in Westport and Norwalk, these two towns will be much more conducive towards being supportive. Greenwich, in my opinion will not.
I vote Westport.