...Another notable, recent development in US culture is decision making being weighted towards social considerations. Trying to get something done often involves a negotiation process between people of different personal needs, with considerable consideration given to the person potentially most inconvenienced rather than the task itself. Priority one seems to be avoiding cringeworthy situations, effectively reducing individual accountability.
The number of people in the US who seem to feel “Entitled” to a certain standard of living...
I'd like to piggyback on that notion of entitlements that you bring up because it's something that's been bothering me for some time. I forget about how overwhelming entitlement is perceived in other countries, but while I was in the Bay Area and living in America, I came to be quite fed up with individuals or groups who, for one reason or another, asserted their entitlement to something over others. I'm still not entirely sure to have pinpointed this frustration to something specific or a general trend.
I've encountered countless instances of such behavior (bingo, I've just framed this as a behavior). The driver who cuts in without signaling (huge issue in the Bay Area!), the loud person on their phone in public transports, the person who breaks the rules but screams at whoever points it out to them, the car parked in a handicap space because it's closest to the store entry, the general disrespect of social norms, etc...
We've all experienced this in America and elsewhere and some like to point to others for such behaviors and that's where stereotypes and prejudice build up.
I think the American over emphasis on the individual as opposed to the larger group is the cause of this entitlement trend. It's as benign as "who cares what others think?" to " I do whatever the fk I want!"... it's the slippery slope towards the ME obsession so heavily promoted in the media. The unique individual is like a permission to break all rules, because these rules are oh so stifling, and I'm so special that they aren't addressed to me.
From the bozo in his horned headdress breaking into the Capitol to the thug with his pants down below his ass crossing a 3 lane street and stopping all traffic in the process.... where does it stop?
I'm a leftie and I'm appalled at the so called rights of ultra minorities overwhelming the media and forcing the great majority to modify the rules to accommodate them. Where does it stop?
America had become a zoo, where the extremes have found on the web the ability to express anything and everything. The sophisticated even found ways to amplify their message to make themselves appear more bulls than frogs (will let you figure that one out, it's easy). What I'm trying to say is that this avalanche of self absorbed individualism in America transcends all races, political affiliations and social classes.
Entitlement is a disease that impacts society, businesses and government alike. When government has to account for every groups' interests, projects end up taking much more time and being much more costly than expected. When businesses have to modify their buildings, their procedures or follow a ever growing list of requirements, their costs increase to where they are no longer competitive. When everyone is more concerned with self than the greater good, society becomes a free for all anarchy.
I know, some will say that the clear solution is a dictatorship, because control is their only alternative. I totally disagree with that logic yet recognize the extremely difficult challenges America faces in a world of countries that have all to some extend kept a close framework to operate within. Our creative strength is also our weakness. We have become the world's most anarchic society not at war.