Keep trying to find a job, sheda regardless how long you've been unemployed\underemployed. 80% of a MAN's problems disappear when he has a job and money in his pocket. The other 20% of your problems will disappear the moment you heed this advice - Man who fight with wife all day gets no piece at night.
Surf used to tell me to find a job a lot to, he used to assume an individual was a failed trader, poor and unemployed, if one simply disagreed with him, in between his CALLING OF THE TOPS, of course.

