okay to follow up, initially goog options quotes were crossed. They then were "orderly" but didn't make sense, the goog 380 puts traded at 36 x 38 area when goog was trading at 340 (this makes no sense but whatever). This isn't fair but I figured I should liquidate while I can cause I got to 340 which was my final target for these options. I should have gotten more for these IF i had been able to sell because how can an option be less than the intrinsic value!?!?
At this point i tried to limit sell, and wouldn't get filled. hit the bid, then the bid started dropping, put market order and couldn't get filled.
Order got stuck when I tried to cancel so I couldn't do anything. It was stuckw ith IB and called IB, they couldn't reach CBOE or it was toob usy so they couldn't give me an "out" and couldn't advise me since they couldn't tell if the order was executed or not.
Ultimately the order was cancelled several hours later and I was unable to exit this position at the desired price/time.
Perhaps they should make a market in whether the market will work. Taleb's black swan's always talk about externalities but not the actual market itself, ie what if in a black swan one side of your hedge fails (not counterparty risk, but exchange risk), etc.
Ie can you ever really be hedged/in the position you think when there is volume/volatility it becomes illiquid even if you are taking the other side?
The reality is, you can never hedge nor can you ever really have a position short or long in anything since during high volatility events your position becomes discretionary to exchanges/other people as what happened to me.
And perhaps thats the lesson here, regardless of how good a trader you are is that you're only as good as a market is.