Aphie, if you are talking about a large sum I think I know the solution.
I suggested this solution once to a woman when she moaned that she could not pass money onto her daughter without gift tax being incurred.
She didn't however take the advice as it would have meant that she would have lost control over her daughter and family. Gift tax has however since been abolished in Australia.
So short of moving to Australia (

) I suggest you consider
lending money to the person concerned at a minimal interest rate
which that person thence can invest into real estate.
(Nothing wrong with lending 100% of the purchase cost or perhaps just the deposit amount).
Given a long enough lead time (say 10 years) the property will presumably double in value because of inflation and other factors whilst the purchasing power of your loan amount will reduce over that time (assuming there is inflation during this period).
Thus you have achieved your objective of passing money on to a family member (or a girlfriend ?

) without someone incurring gift tax.
Another way (at least in Australia) may be to ascribe the income from a particular property or other type of investment to another person for a proscribed number of years in which case that person would be liable for income tax on the income but presumably not liable for for gift tax.
Another solution may be in the case where the beneficiary of your gift is not earning income at the moment. If you 'employ' her or him the wages become a tax deduction to you and (as the beneficiary is either not earning any other income or is earning income at a rate low enough not to pay tax) there is no income tax to pay nor gift tax.
Your question brings up another interesting point (very relevant to me personally) i.e. if you pass some money or other assets onto say your daughter, and considering the fact that perhaps close to 50% of all marriages break down, how do you (at least for this generation) prevent her ex husband running off with half the value of the property (or money) you may have given to your daughter ?
Money which you slaved for most of your life and which your ex son in law is now happy to piss up against the wall.
Putting a property into a trust will at least assure that the asset is protected - at least for one generation that is).
I have some other suggestions to make as well (this post is getting too long) so feel free to PM me.
Please note that the above are merely scenarios i.e. the way I see things and that I am not responsbile for any eventual outcomes. One needs to verify the above scenarios with a solicitor and/or an accountant. I am not qualified in either area.
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