POKER RULE#35: Develop a true indifference to the game.
POKER RULE #36: Don't take the game personally. The poker gods are not out to destroy you personally (although it may somtimes seem that way). The game itself is as neutral and mechanical as a roulette wheel, a church raffle, or a lottery ball drawing... To repeat: players often think that elaborate steps are needed - great straining, striving steps, complex steps. The ordinary way of Zen dispels this. In modern life, as in poker, we often find ourselves tangled in frantic activity, trying to force events to our will, to make them happen. The actual answer is much simpler and involves a more natural approach. This sort of simplicity has been described in Zen literature in the following way: "When hungry, eat, when tired, sleep... The ordinary way is the way.
POKER RULE#39: When you take your emotions out of the game, other players' emotions become visible. When we are focused exclusively on our own emotions (as we often are), the emotion of others tend to be obscured. When we make ourselves neutral, however, we find that the canvas suddenly becomes blank and the emotions of others begin to appear.
POKER RULE #42: Your biggest opponent, and worst enemy, is always yourself. Years of experience eventually teach you that your main battle, always, is with yourself - your propensity for errors, for rationalizing marginal hands into good hands, lack of concentration, misreading other players, emotional eruptions, impatience, and so on...
POKER RULE #47: Fit yourself into the flow of the game... Some players approach the game of poker simply as a game, the way you might play Chinese checkers, or Old Maid. They can be observed playing their own cards and nothing else, staring hard at their hand, brows furrowed, never glancing up, strugglnig along. It's as if they are playing in a vacuum. Still others do the opposite, trying to dominate all parts of the game, force victory, muscle over the game with various aggressive maneuvers... Do either of the above two approach work? Yes, intermittently. A better approach - one that experience shows works more frequently - is to try to fit yourself into the flow of it...
Larry Phillips