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In response to Kamikaze's comment about risk managers, I think as a newbie thinking about joining a training program in trading, one of the most important questions to ask is if the person that will be training you has been a successful trader doing exactly what you will be doing. The problem I had with my risk manager/trainer was the fact that he had an impressive trading background but it was all institutional and he never day traded in his life. The guy was no doubt definetely smart and definetely knew what was going on in the markets but the advice and training he gave was more based on his institutional experience. And as most day traders will say, you will get smoked if you trade solely from a institutional/long term/fundamental perspective especially if you have tight stop loss limits that most prop firms strictly enforce. The guy wanted us to trade off higher highs, lower lows, bollinger bands and thought that we should be in the market from bell to bell. All of these lessons, I had to eventually unlearn. Trading from bell to bell? Absolutely the worst advice for a day trader.
My current risk manager, has been day trading futures for ten years and still currently trades while also managing. Just based on that fact, he understands what we are going through and in turn is much more supportive and helpful then some guy who traded at Goldman/Merrill/MS, etc.
In regards to why being a good FA might be a better lifestyle than a good prop trader, in my opinion it is mainly because of the stability. Once you build your client base and achieve success as an FA, you are pretty much assured a steady stream of income while as a prop trader, the markets are constantly changing so there is no guarantee, no stability that for example you will make 20k each month. You may make a million one month, but you can also lose a million the next.
As I already said, top traders trade, but the vast majority of risk managers in prop shops are either former floor traders or fx-traders, usually who failed to make the transition to prop when their old career died. If they were still up for trading then they would rather than take a boring job watching other people trade and trying to inject their opinions from time to time. Most prop shops get these types to teach their program, and quite simply those people should be ignored if you plan to succeed as they can't do it now and often never could.
If you was employed by a very successful active prop trader who offered to teach you then it would be a different story, some of the best prop traders I have seen have taken on newbies (usually friends and family) and the results have usually been very impressive, but then you would learn from someone who was involved themselves and could explain to you on the job, watch what you did and mentor you continually every day, with that kind of support and someone who was actually good showing you your chances are hugely improved. However for the vast majority of newbies that is not going to happen and so they need to learn themselves; at least then you have a chance to succeed by IMO listening to the advice of a proven failure (ex-trader/burn-out/risk-manager) will only escort you to your demise in the markets.
Its your life mate, but if I was you then don't expect to be taught well at a prop shop unless you can talk one of their best traders into teaching you, and most of those won't want to anyway. If you sign a prop deal salary or not you will still be in a sink or swim position, trust me, and your best bet will be to read lots of books from those who were hot shit (Market Wizard series is cool), and trading psychology and study the markets as much as you can during the day. Ask top traders for advice if you can, or at least successful people, but ignore the pretenders (for the record I have known of two cases where traders who failed after 1 year were taken on to TRAIN new graduates to trade so amazingly you could be learning from someone who will bull-shit you to death and knows nothing about trading well; do you really want to take advice from one of those potentially???)
You need to make up your mind, but the fact that you appear so unwilling to make a decision tells me that you should go for the broking job, as if you really wanted to trade then there wouldn't be any doubts in your mind. Keep us posted as to how it all develops for you.