Quote from roreilly:
I think there are some really good suggestions here. I have been personally struggling with this very same issue.
Here are my thoughts on the subject matter.
The first idea I got from a seminar by Linda Bradford Raschke. You should expect to feel regret when you sell because the price continued. Of course. No one can sell the bottom or the top.
The second idea is that there is a natural trade off between different exits. Larger targets means fewer wins (but larger wins). Smaller targets mean more wins, but smaller. Scaling out means you take a full loss, but only a partial win. Scaling in renders you subject to pyramiding losses or frustrating stop-outs. Choose your poison; there is no "right" or best answer. Best of all, if your entries are pretty good, with a decent risk ratio, you can be profitable with all of them.
So put the methodology question to the side.
The most important aspect of this is "What can you stick to every time?" Ahh, here is the real rub.
Once again, there is no easy or right answer. Let's say you go for small wins. Will you have the stamina to re-enter or reverse as your system dictates? Can you maintain a high winning percentage?
Okay, so hold on for the big winners. But day after day, the market gets 70% of the way to your target then reverses. How frustrating. Hard to maintain this discipline, but, it takes just a few wins to offset many losses, and commissions and whipsaws are reduced.
What can you consistently stick to? Go with that.
So, that is where I am at in my thinking. I have set my exit rules and targets, and I am trying the Mark Douglas challenge to see if I can stick to my rules for 5 trades. Yeah, I know he says twenty, but I need baby steps. If I can five disciplined trades in a row, then I will try again for six. In the past I have gotten to eight or nine, but my trading systems did not have a long term positive expectancy, so I had to start over. My record so far (over the past week) is 2. Which is better than one.
Good luck and safe trading.