i wonder at what point should we call it quits? i remember in one of shark tank episodes, kevin stated that if the business is not working after 3 years, do something else. In the realm of trading that could be a different strategy and not doing the same shit over and over again. but at what point do we walk away altogether? At some point you gotta say, trading is not for me? what is that point of no return, cause obviously running out of money aint it lol.
Someone enlighten me cause i'm at that fork in the road with trading. i'm thinking i should invest in managers programs like you see in collective 2 site and just forget about doing it on my own. Then focus on other worthwhile money making schemes.
@himly83 Yours just may be the most important post in my journal and on the whole of Elite Trader.
The elephant in the room is that most traders are not being profitable. It took me 15 years to get here. That is just insane. I have been irrational. When I started, if I had known how much total money I would have pissed away in 15 years, I certainly would never have started.
If I had seen this picture 15 years ago and was told -- "THIS is what you are going to try to trade against-- these testosterone-laden professionally trained profit-seeking monsters." -- then I would NOT have done anything other than follow the newsletter recommendations.
And that's just the breathing competition.
Here is the other 90%:
Instead of merely following newsletter recommendations, I said- "I can do better than that guy!" And that was the beginning of the rabbit hole.
I thought it was just a joke when I read that large firms like UBS above hire trading psychologists. Seriously. But now I know why. This is tough!!! And it's mostly a mental game. We are wired as humans to act a certain way during market rallies and selloffs (greedy and fearful), but good traders have to trade the opposite direction during times of high emotion in the markets.
Between the money most traders waste and the lost opportunities of "other schemes" as you say, not to mention the mental and relationship damaging impact of losing real money (and lots of it in many cases), trading is NOT something I recommend to anyone.
Job advertisement:
Hi! Welcome to your dream job!
- 95% chance you will fail in 12 months
- You will lose your full account balance several times. ($100k+ gone!)
- You will be stressed out each day
- You will be grumpy and mean to family members because you had a "bad day at the office."
- You will fight against highly-competitive professionals and their quant-programmed Xeon-powered computers.
If you haven't succeeded after 2 years, then either get one-on-one coaching OR just move on and become a safer, passive trader. Stop beating your head against the wall. Collective2 has some good systems. Striker.com does. iSystems.com does too.
And those are my candid thoughts.