I think this comment pertains to carrying on one's person, or at least I'll answer as if it was. I agree with some of your assessment. Unfortunately, some people who own guns see themselves in that role (part time cop or something similar). Once a person feels empowered because the are walking around with a gun, I personally don't think they should be carrying one on their person. Carrying by citizens should be for self defense. Carrying should make you feel more safe, not more powerful. Others may disagree, but that's my opinion. I know people that I don't think should own guns for a variety of reasons, but do. I tend to steer clear of them.
With the gun genie out of the bottle in this country, I don't believe it is reasonable to ask people to become un-armed, because only the law abiding citizens would be dis-armed. While I am pro gun, I always advocate "responsible" ownership. I carry pepper spray along side my firearm in my vehicle, so I have a choice of force. I am a big believer in situational awareness, so it's unlikely that I will be surprised be a street crime, possibly giving me time to make such a choice while in the proximity of my gun. Even though I have a CCW, I actually don't like carrying on my person, though I keep an ankle holster in my vehicle should I need to (I do carry my pepper spray in situations where others would carry their firearms).
You may not believe this, but I would not have been carrying a firearm had I been at the concert (if it was legal to do so). I don't carry into restaurants, theaters, or even my friend's homes, unless I have their permission to do so.
Folly!
You never know what you're going to need, how much and when... until you actually need it.... the basic principle of preparedness.
You're telling us that you "anticipate what you're going to need" and adjust your behavior accordingly?
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