Quote from tomdavis:
Actually, that would make you one of "them."
that's one of those krappy knee jerk thingies that are easy to remember, easy to repeat and make you seem to be standing on the higher ground intellectually and emotionally... read up on psychopaths, they are not hard to understand. It's all a zero sum game with them. If you show them that the sum will be -1 for them when they ruin a meal for you they won't ruin a meal for you... treating them like normal people deserve to be treated, with reason and care and all that is a wasted effort.
I'll try laughing at them when they act up for awhile, that seems to push their buttons a good bit. Anything is better than waiting for that other shoe to drop.. They are incredibly adept liars, getting in a he-said she-said thingy with them when the police roll up is a real losing proposition.. you have to have witnesses and you have to have self defense on your side so pushing their buttons is a fun thing to do. I've been pulling the laughter thingy on one of them repeatedly, what's he going to do, complain about somebody laughing?
They just are a reality that has to be understood and dealt with, otherwise you are giving up all your personal power and that's not a healthy thing to do... your third chakra will be all muddy colored instead of bright yellow like God intended... and when one chakra is weak it affects the whole system...

