How do you know the critics are right, that they are not twisting the truth and what their motivations are to draw such a deep conclusion of yours? How do you know that the critics are constructive and not engaged in blood libeling? Maybe the "critics" are abject haters after all. Don't you feel that you are already taking sides in your conclusions? Is it ok to criticize Islam as a religion of jihad and conquest or would it be just "islamophobia"?
Did you watch the video in the OP? At all? The woman is saying - point blank - that they just go after anyone that detracts with the label of anti-Semitic. The argument isn't relevant.
Same thing with "racism" these days - forget the argument, just label.