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I am not really too sure about this one. I just switched church homes lately because the music has become too secular for my tastes. The last straw for me was that the church had just allowed the kids to form a rap choir. And to accommodate the kids wishes, they dropped some of the dress standards too much for my tastes. The standard choir wear seemed to be oversized sports jerseys. I spoke to another ex-church member who told me that on his last day of attendance they allowed the kids to dance around a bit. The church, is a changin'!![]()
I'd say that to a great extent there still is a segregation of sorts in America. But I believe it is more dollar based than racial.Quote from Aapex:
4. America, unitl the 1960 was segregated. America has still not overcome this dilema of racism. Until you can acknowledge the truth about your country - "you are still living in the dark ages".

Not always true. The school board that I grew up with was black as well as the budget folks. And they were regularly inept. Fortunately, my mother was old school and she demanded to see homework papers daily when she came home. And she was also part of the PTA. And she kicked butt if we misbehaved in school. If it was a serious enough offense, pop took over. You really didn't want that either.Quote from Aapex:
However, the school board is WHITE.
Those that control the budget are WHITE.

Quote from canyonman00:
Not always true. The school board that I grew up with was black as well as the budget folks. And they were regularly inept. Fortunately, my mother was old school and she demanded to see homework papers daily when she came home. And she was also part of the PTA. And she kicked butt if we misbehaved in school. If it was a serious enough offense, pop took over. You really didn't want that either.
We, my siblings and I, were the products of public schools and involved parents. My parents were involved at every level and throughout the whole program. They demanded obedience and our best efforts. They never told us we had to get "A's," but they would not allow us to give any less than our best efforts. Hard "C" papers got posted on the fridge just as proudly as the easy "A's." Early training and restrictions made for easier times later on.
When we came up in the system, our parents had to buy our books annually. And it took a good chunk of money every year. There was a deadline where the books had to be purchased and they did so religiously. They sacrificed several comforts that they wanted to make sure that their main responsibilities, the kids, had what was required. And it was the fact that their hard earned money bought those books along with our respect, that gave us the pride and didn't allow us to to abuse them. That plus the fact that you would have gotten pounded.
So I don't always agree that the control of the board is the complete or dominant issue.![]()
Quote from canyonman00:
Not always true. The school board that I grew up with was black as well as the budget folks. And they were regularly inept. Fortunately, my mother was old school and she demanded to see homework papers daily when she came home. And she was also part of the PTA. And she kicked butt if we misbehaved in school. If it was a serious enough offense, pop took over. You really didn't want that either.
We, my siblings and I, were the products of public schools and involved parents. My parents were involved at every level and throughout the whole program. They demanded obedience and our best efforts. They never told us we had to get "A's," but they would not allow us to give any less than our best efforts. Hard "C" papers got posted on the fridge just as proudly as the easy "A's." Early training and restrictions made for easier times later on.
When we came up in the system, our parents had to buy our books annually. And it took a good chunk of money every year. There was a deadline where the books had to be purchased and they did so religiously. They sacrificed several comforts that they wanted to make sure that their main responsibilities, the kids, had what was required. And it was the fact that their hard earned money bought those books along with our respect, that gave us the pride and didn't allow us to to abuse them. That plus the fact that you would have gotten pounded.
So I don't always agree that the control of the board is the complete or dominant issue.![]()
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And, slavery still exists in America. Have you not listened to all the clamor against not dealing with the Mexican influx? Mexicans are the new slaves. And there is a large support group for their cheap services.

And to this day I still think I got some great parents. I survived a few whippings and I have achieved a lifestyle and status that I am sure they are proud of. Have I gone through racial challenges? Yes! Do I get my share of sh*t for not aligning myself all the time democratically with the peoples? Yes! All this and still just one generation removed from inner city projects also.Quote from ZZZzzzzzzz:
Sounds like you were lucky to have good parents...
