Listen up man!
Watch out! You're now falling into the spiral of loss. You need to stop trading and clear your mind.
You are most likely OVER TRADING!
1 trade a day is usually all you need to make a TIDY profit!
Let me give you an example...
Had I not slept in, my system gave a signal to short silver futures (YI) and hold. You set STOPS at an acceptable amount of risk...
If you are stopped out-STOP! Do not trade..Figure out why it might have not works and "SOH" . . .which means to, "SIT ON HANDS"
This is one of the first lessons you learn as a trader, that trading isn't about 100 trades a day...
It's about sitting around until you see a reliable signal/pattern...
Shooting from the hip will not work. Use an indicator and follow it.
I've lost money too, we all have. But consider this, I'm only down -500$ this month total

which doesn't impede my decision making skills.
Know where your "off" switch is, and HIT it as soon as you think your emotions/bad habits are acting out.
Miss a trade? Screw it. Don't trade.
Take a small loss? Who cares, better than a huge one.
Down to 3k from 20k? That's crappy, but now it's all about survival through small size and making many, many good trades. Be consistent...if you are not, learn to control your mental state...learn to be objective...weigh your odds.
This game is much like texas hold'em...
we cannot control what cards we get, just our psychology and how much we decide to bet. Bet only on good hands and fold for all mediocre cards..
Good luck. . .
By the way, if you are serious, you need to take a break and order every trading book know. Find other traders other than this site and get the basics. The basics will ensure you don't go 100% under...u may still lose, but you'll have a fighting chance, because you'll understand your mistakes a LOT better.
OH and another thing,
if you read "disciplined trader" you will find that you MAY NOT call yourself a "full time trader" until you have sufficient experience...even 6-12 months is not enough to call yourself a "trader"! You gotta know the game first!:eek: