This is the way I have always done it but others in this forum have provided a more detailed way to do it. To me the delta is an estimate anyway because it's created from assumption. I feel all the greeks and option values are estimates. If you have actual values, that would be worth $$$$$$$
Delta would do but the problem is the sold call is 10days but the puts is 30days
In this different duration delta combined of the two would not do
Or are these two individually like the 10days call have delta 35 would consider 35 itm and not correlate with the 30days despite having two position together
Delta understates probability by the conditional probability of exercise. Somebody correct me if I'm wrong. I've been goaded out of my depth.
I think your lost in the sauce, man. That's why OTM-options trying to kill this mental masturbation.
Anyway, delta is additive. Don't insert correlation in this. What you are thinking of is vega between options. There is a square root of time adjustment for (correlating) aggregating the vega risk. Heck, add them anyway. just be aware the other expiry IV can go a different way.