Quote from Dantheman:
To Dojibear,
Yes I will have to somehow reduce the number of times I look at my P/L....I'm sure it was a contributing factor.
To Fasttrader,
Be in the habit of using a trailing stop on your profitable trades.
To Caracal,
Nonsense, I don't know what everyone finds so insane about QLGC. I have never had a "problem" trading it. The moves seem quite logical (barring a couple instances) and if your stop is wide enough you can catch major intraday trends in it.
The stock did not keep me nervous. The root of the problem was that I wanted the profit and I was afraid that it would "disappear" if I stayed in the trade. Combo of fear/greed.
Again the problem is a psychological issue. It is never what you trade , it is HOW you trade. You know all the people who think daytrading is so risky? Well, if you are a daytrader you know that it is not "so risky". It's a psych issue that they have.
And finally to those who think I can't trade or am a loser or something, I will let you know that I have breakeven performance. After I conquer this last psych demon I will be net profitable.
I started this thread as an educational exercise, maybe someone who didn't think it before will realize that psychology is truly the defining factor between a profitable and unprofitable trader.
Illiquid, I agree with you. The target was nearly my 1R price point. Otherwise I don't have hard targets.
Guys..... this has been a great thread. Hope it continues!
My 2 cents on qlgc and comments on the above ...
Caracal made some very good points about qlgc. It can be difficult. It is crowded. Where I take issue is a blanket statement to never trade it; look elsewhere. That depends.
Dojibear makes a great point about P/L affecting judgment. This is a biggy for me. On another thread I wrote about a friend and "mentor" wanting to stay away from anything that tainted her judgement and took decision making away from her plans. To simplify some advice she imparted to me: if one enters on TA do not exit by looking at how much up or down the trade is moment to moment other than to the extent it's an integral part of your exit plan. And as far as "counting your chips at the table" and looking at your "hand" repeatedly, she advised... don't!
As far as Dantheman....
bro, I respectfully submit that you are being too inflexible (and a bit haughty) in not reflecting on the "substance" of Caracal's admonishment (and others'). There is no doubt in my mind, having traded equities/options for many years... that picking and choosing "what" you trade does/can make a difference on your bottom line. Period! Thus I don't agree with your overly- broad statement: "It is never what you trade, it is HOW you trade."
It does matter WHAT you trade. Every equity, future and index has a "personality'. And, being students of the market as you and most of us are (or wish to be) one should realize this simple point... early on. Quick example. I like trading AMAT. Traded it for years. Rarely lose. Make consistent profits. Same with some others. But certain equities I cannot seem to get in sync with. Doesn't fit 'my' style?! Or who knows why?! Just cannot do as well. Period!
So should I try to put a square peg into a round hole just to say "I'm good! I can trade ANYTHING?!"
Negative bro.
A trader has a "relationship(s)" with what he/she trades. And just like any relationship some personalities match better than others. Maybe AMAT's "sign" matches my astrology better. I don't know. Maybe it's nature and how it moves, beta, etc. fits me better. Feeling comfortable with 'what' you trade is a giant first step toward consistently better profits. An integral part of my trading plan is to identify and trade THAT WHICH I UNDERSTAND and "I" feel comfortable with. What seems to be a good match... for me. Suggest u think about this before taking a hard-headed attitude trying to defend some caveman image of being an omnipotent trader
(submit this as "constructive" criticism, not a personal attack b.t.w.)
Thanks again to all who posted good insight... it's been helpful.
iceman
