Thank you for your post and the link.Most brokers and in general most option trading software will try to fit a curve through the implied vol points at each maturity and use the fitted point for calculations. These curves can sometimes have parameters to try to fix the problem of deep OTM values. (You should ignore all ITM vols btw and stick to OTM only). If you don't want to do that you have to just ignore the points where you get bad greeks.
If you do a google search you can see how ivolatility.com do this for example.
May I ask you a couple of questions:
1. What sort of curves are they using?
2. Why I should ignore all ITM vols?