Quote from cnms2:
Check this. It's very true.
- 38-Steps To Be A Successful Trader by Anonymous
1. We accumulate information--buying books, going to seminars and researching.
2. We begin to trade with our 'new' knowledge.
3. We consistently 'donate' and then realize we may need more knowledge or information.
4. We accumulate more information.
5. We switch the commodities we are currently following.
6. We go back into the market and trade with our 'updated' knowledge.
7. We get 'beat up' again and begin to lose some of our confidence. Fear starts setting in.
8. We start to listen to 'outside news' & other traders.
9. We go back into the market and continue to donate.
10. We switch commodities again.
11. We search for more information.
12. We go back into the market and start to see a little progress.
13. We get 'overconfident' & market humbles us.
14. We start to understand that trading successfully is going to take more time and more knowledge then we anticipated.
Most People Will Give up at this Point as They Realize Work Is Involved.
15. We get serious and start concentrating on learning a 'real' methodology.
16. We trade our methodology with some success, but realize that something is missing.
17. We begin to understand the need for having rules to apply our methodology.
18. We take a sabbatical from trading to develop and research our trading rules.
19. We start trading again, this time with rules and find some success, but overall we still hesitate when it comes time to execute.
20. We add, subtract and modify rules as we see a need to be more proficient with our rules.
21. We feel we are very close to crossing that threshold of successful trading.
22. We start to take responsibility for our trading results as we understand that our success is in us, not the methodology.
23. We continue to trade and become more proficient with our methodology and our rules.
24. As we trade we still have a tendency to violate our rips and our results are still erratic.
25. We know we are close.
26. We go back and research our rules.
27. We build the confidence in our rules and go back into the market and trade.
28. Our trading results are getting better, but we are still hesitating in executing our rules.
29. We now see the importance of following our rules as we see the results of our trades when we don't follow them.
30. We begin to see that our lack of success is within us (a lack of discipline in following the rules because of some kind of fear) and we begin to work on knowing ourselves better.
31. We continue to trade and the market teaches us more and more about ourselves.
32. We master our methodology and trading rules.
33. We begin to consistently make money.
34. We get a little overconfident and the market humbles us.
35. We continue to learn our lessons.
36. We stop thinking and allow our rules to trade for us (trading becomes boring, but successful) and our trading account continues to grow as we increase our contract size.
37. We are making more money then we ever dreamed to be possible.
38. We go on with our lives and accomplish many of the goals we had always dreamed of.
Thatâs an interesting summary cnms2.
But Iâve decided not to head down that route.
In any endeavour, the majority will seek the holy grail of instant success and effortless mastery. Itâs human nature. Seeking pleasure, avoiding pain.
So while many traders are searching for the perfect system, or seeing options as the nirvana, the shortcut to riches, (a myth perpetuated by marketing hype) my perspective is entirely different.
I believe that real success lies in discipline, unswerving commitment, and tireless hard work.
Baby steps up the stairway to heaven; before you know it youâll be walking on the moon.
If you want inspiration, watch Gattaca. A celebration of the limitless potential of the human spirit. A timeless masterpiece.
Iâve spoken to some successful traders. Theyâre not interested in home runs. Theyâd choose consistent singles any day. And they pay little attention to âperfectâ systems or fancy indicators. They simply trade with the trend, cut their losses and ride their winners.
And thatâs all Iâm setting out to do.
I could illustrate this with so many analogies.
Take bodybuilding/weight-training. A passion of mine when I was younger.
Take the majority. What do they do?
Read the magazines, buy the supplements and join expensive, all-frills health clubs. They try to emulate the pros. Little matter that theyâre not juiced, genetic freaks. They jump from one hyped system to another, always in search of the holy grail, thatâs right, YOU TOO could have a body like this in six weeks. Just twelve easy payments of $39.95, and eventually quit after injuries, frustration and perhaps even forays into the world of underground pharmacopoeia.
They donât take the time to find out what real life success stories do. They donât enter the world of the genetically typical and drug-free. After all, why should they? Itâs not glamorous and exciting. No bells and whistles.
Thereâs no avoiding the pain.
Guys love to boast about their bench-press.
Go to your local health club and just look at the benchpress rack. Thereâs usually a queue. A pecking order of guys lining up to prove their manhood, hoisting as much weight as their ego will bear, with awful, even dangerous technique.
Itâs absurd.
Little matter that itâs the same struggle with the exact same weights, week in, week out. Month in, month out. No progress. Then they curse their bad fortune when they get a rotator cuff tear.
What do the real-life success stories do?
They have a sound training plan which they stick to religiously, eat a healthy diet with an excess of protein and calories, and keep a training log. Simple as that.
And they use one of the greatest inventions in the arena of progressive resistance. Microweights. Tiny plates for an Olympic bar. 1lb. 1/2lb. 1/4lb.
They donât do a thousand sets of twelve different exercises to develop their chest. They do two sets on the benchpress. Once a week. They donât try to add 20lb to the bar every workout. Theyâll add 2lb a week, one tiny plate on each side of the bar.
Iâve actually seen people scoff when they see the tiny weights.
Now what happens?
The get-stacked quick crowd are plagued with injury upon injury. Their weights never increase. They get nowhere. At the end of the year, what have they got to show for it?
Nothing.
Meanwhile, the guy with the boring system and the tiny weights has gained 100lb on his benchpress in one year. And thatâs just one year.
How many people do you know who have done that?
Probably none.
So you see these guys with their impressive physiques. They didnât sculpt them overnight. Rome wasnât built in a day either. Their physiques are the result of years of discipline, commitment and hard work.
But I digress. ;-)
Getting back to the pointâ¦
Iâm implementing discipline and simplicity from day one.
I placed my first real trade on 7th December after paper-trading for a couple of months. I lost 14% on a 3.5K account, (limiting my loss to 1% on a losing trade) but having made 6% on what is now a 7K account (post small deposit), Iâm 2% short of break-even.
Iâm living within my means, and plan to add 1-2K a month to my trading account.
Iâm aiming to increase my equity consistently, even if itâs only $100 at a time.
Thereâs no such thing as bad luck.
I believe that everyone makes their own luck.
