These days, a stock at just about any price can fly out of control. The volume of the stock is more determinate of how out of control the stock gets. The reason it is seen more with stocks under $10 is because they are usually thinly traded. There are a few companies that are heavily traded that trade around the $5 range and they rarely experience big swings because they trade >30MM/day. When a stock is thinly traded, it doesn't take much to make it swing wildly.
The 3 big options brokers (ToS, OX, IB) all allow conditional orders. You can base them on the bid, ask, or mark and it won't make much difference. I never trade options on a stock that doesn't trade more than 1MM/day. More important however is the option open interest. At the strikes that I am trading I must see >1,000.
I wouldn't say that you should close out your positions everytime you'll be gone, but I would make sure those positions are in heavily traded issues. The risk is too high on thinly traded issues. Remeber, even the most liquid options are still vulnerable to gaps.