This is key. I'd add that one needs to be flexible about what they do for a living and where they live but this doesn't compute with some people. A friend's son thinks he's going to be an actor and his parents feed that. OK, he might strike it big but I might also win the lottery but am not counting on it. I've seen the same with parents thinking their kid will become a pro athlete and the family revolves around that way more than it should. Only problem is, those kids are stars in their parents' eyes only. Reality deficit disorder should be added to DSM-IV.
Quote from Burtakus:
you are not stuck where you are. All it takes is educating yourself, working your ass off, not getting complacent, learning how to make opportunities for yourself, and making yourself valuable in a field that has potential for better than average earnings. Some careers just won't get you there no matter how educated or hardworking you are.
