Quote from racyb:
Agreed that should have been my next trade, and in fact I was in the process of trying to click the mouse, but my finger just wouldn't budge. I am still in the midst of converting from a counter-trend mentality to going with the trend and boy is it hard!
But, I must say that forcing myself to trade with the trend today was much more relaxing. Even the +6/-6 opening trade that you mention in your journal felt good today even right after entry. Totally different feeling than the fade I would have normally done. However, that trade was botched today as well, early 2 pt profit instead of the 5pt the market made available. My target limit order was up there above, but I just dragged it down and took the profit!
I know, I was totally counter-trend forever and a day. I had to trade breakouts at least 100 times in sim before I tried it live. Honestly I could not get myself to pull the trigger live, it felt so foreign to me to buy a HIGH or sell a LOW.
It's human nature to want the best price. So as traders we try to pick tops and bottoms and forget that catching pieces of high probability moves is what short term trading is all about.
Al Brooks' says that trading with the trend is uncomfortable because to do it you are buying/selling pullbacks or buying/selling highs/lows. So for example if looking for long entry in an uptrend either you are buying when price is falling or buying when price seems "too high". It feels scary, but it's the easiest trade once it's on. And if it fails you have a very tight stop zone for the most part. I always wait for a price pivot, so I know buyers/sellers really are coming back in after a pullback, but I jump in pretty quick when I can.
What helped me in letting winners run further was to allow some trades to go from profitable all the way back to b/e and stop me out. By doing that I realized that the worst thing that happened is I was flat (I always allow a tick to cover commission) and could now choose to try again, perhaps reverse sides, or wait for another setup.
It's also helpful to trade more than 1 lot, so you can get your instant gratification and still have something if the rest is "taken away", but also still have the opportunity to ride a real winner.
If you're trading in a range, take profits if the opposite side of the range fails to break out further. If you're trading with the trend, target a higher high or a lower low, usually a test of the previous S/R zone works very well.