Quote from BoyBrutus:
William
The ability to evaluate under fire is the experience thats required. Reminds me of what I read about the civil war where they found young dead recruits who had reloaded there rifles 20 times without firing a single shot.
The real dangers are psychological and each step forward will expose these things you have never though could affect you from your childhood to parents and marriage. Each person is unique in this regard. Each quality that may be considered a positive in trading will also have a downside that must be realized and overcome. I have found meditation and self hypnosis has helped me alot. Some recommend yoga. Positive visualization of your actions(self hypnosis) in trading has also been a major benefit to me.
Trading in the zone was of some limited help although others seem to go on about it.
When in a short term trade I keep my finger on the 'close at market' button if ever a massive buy/sell spurt hits its automatic. I dont wait for a retracement or explanation of such an action that has just happened.
As London stated you have to embrace uncertainty, you don't know when a Merrill fat fingered mistake could happen or black swan or terrorist attack but most times the tape will give you advance warning. Also the need for certainty is why some fail at trading, waiting for to much confirmation especially when scalping.
System development is hard work, scalping is easy why can people not make some money scalping while working and developing on their bigger goals, I think its the need for certainty they cannot let go of their indicators or something visual that tells them change is happening.
I would also recommend to anybody to go from simulator to trading 1 contract. I traded a very large amount of contracts in my naive early days and let me tell you 1 contract now has more emotional burden. Soon as you start losing, back to the simulator, and so on until you build up your contracts. There is absolutely no reason to lose any large amount of money if you do the above.
I always felt that doing the above I would miss the big win that was probably going to happen today.
The usual reply to the above is that it doesn't feel real or thats the way I learn, trading a real large amount of contracts etc The usual macho bullshit male ego stuff that leads to vengeance trading and also account and self destruction.
On that happy note, hope this has been of help. jmho