Quote from lorax2013:
Interesting topic. First I think simply trading will tend to diminish the ego over the years.
Also, I try to view trading as simply finding the truth. A scientist for example generally accepts new knowledge and quickly moves forward - because they are trained to focus on data and not equate unexpected data with their sense of self/ego. They realize that all unexpected data and dead ends are simply a path towards learning the truth. Now sure you are going to be sad if your trading losses cause economic hardship - but again that is just new data telling you that you are risking too much money. If you make a fortune, again, it simply means you found the truth more efficiently than others. That's great but try to remember it is just a skillset you developed and it doesn't necessarily make you better person than someone who spent their time developing the skillset of basket weaving.
Having said all that I still get bummed on a bad trade and slightly cocky on a good one - but again this problem fades over the years.
Agree completely with this idea. Spot on IMO.
Here's relative reading, one of the best books on trading that's not about trading....
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Egonomics-M...21/ref=sr_1_13?ie=UTF8&qid=1333313034&sr=8-13
Truth
Curiosity
Humility
That's the cornerstone of using Ego to your advantage. (Similar ideas to Steenbarger's "Internal Observer")