Yeah, but that's the thing. Short of a fatal heart attack, you'll likely decline prematurely and linger. Decline and linger. While others your age will be more robust and dynamic, living fuller lives. You're less likely to end anywhere near on a high note.Quote from CaptainObvious:
If I drop tomorrow it's been a good life.
yea. my mother in law spent 9 years in a nursing home bed unable to walk. the last year she had to be fed like a baby.Quote from Brass:
Yeah, but that's the thing. Short of a fatal heart attack, you'll likely decline prematurely and linger. Decline and linger. While others your age will be more robust and dynamic. You're less likely to end anywhere near on a high note.
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yea. my mother in law spent 9 years in a nursing home bed unable to walk. the last year she had to be fed like a baby.
my mother is going on 2 years in the same condition. there are some things much worse than death.
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Yeah, but that's the thing. Short of a fatal heart attack, you'll likely decline prematurely and linger. Decline and linger. While others your age will be more robust and dynamic, living fuller lives. You're less likely to end anywhere near on a high note.
So the first thing that pops into your mind is not preventative health care, balance and healthful living, but assisted suicide. Interesting. In other words, you'd rather die than eat your vegetables. I was like that when I was 10.Quote from CaptainObvious:
Which is exactly why we need assisted suicide to be legal...

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Which is exactly why we need assisted suicide to be legal. It's terribly cruel to keep people alive in that type of condition.
I'm not saying you were cruel, just that it's cruel for our society not to allow a choice.
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we might need it but we dont have it. once you are in the system you lose all control. even the family cant make decisions that might have a negitive effect. its just not black and white. trust me i know having gone through it 4 times now.
without traditional medicare it would have been a disaster. do you know that in many states siblings are financially responsible for their parents care? it is seldom enforced today because the hospitals have medicare to bill but if they didnt have medicare do you think they would not come after you?
we agree then. we need an adult conversation about this subject. i wonder if we can get the republicans to stop screaming"death panel" long enough?Quote from CaptainObvious:
I know, I've been through it myself. You want to really make a dent in heathcare costs? Let people die when it's time for them to go rather than be kept breathing for what can be years and years. Hundreds of thousands of dollars wasted. For what?