maybe we could try to define slippage as follow:
assuming the market trades at X and is at equilibrium, i.e. equidistant to the offer and the bid
and there is roughly the same number of contracts Y sitting on the bid and on the offer,
and you are next to trade and
you lift the offer or hit the bid for Y contracts,
what would be the new equilibrium price replacing X and what contracts would now sit on the offer and on the bid,
or, another way to put it,
how many contracts do you need to trade before you move the market?
or
what is the maximum number of contracts you can trade before you move X?