Quote from OPTIONAL777:
This mentality, to justify cheating on a spouse, as OKAY in any way is the disease. The denial of the disease, the moral decay, is minimizing the double damage done by lying about it.
It is Don Bright disease. You know. He ain't that bad, at least not as bad as the other guys.
OK, guess we are not on the same page. Because I happen to agree with you. But you obviously have taken my words to mean what was not my intent. So either I do not have the ability to express myself adequately, or you have decided to interpret my meaning as you wish no matter what. Either way, we have crossed our signals.
Now I don't know about you, but I have been married twice. Once for 22 years, then widowed. Then now again for 5 years. During my first marriage I owned a singles bar for about 8 years. I had more opportunities to "cheat" come my way than you would believe possible. Never did. Never even considered it. Was it tempting on occasion? I won't lie and say it wasn't. But I could never do it because I could never live with myself knowing I betrayed my wife. And thinking about doing something is a far cry from actually doing it. I readily admit to thinking how cool it would be to just grab those bags of money every time I see an armored car making a cash transfer at the curb in front of a bank. But will I ever act on those thoughts? No, not ever. Now you can say..."sure, you would if you knew you could get away with it". But honestly, no, I would not. There is a big difference between fantasy and reality.
When I was single after my wife died, I was like kid in a candy store for 4 years. Lots of women, lots of fun. Now, married again, I know I could never be unfaithful. If I had it in me to be like that, I would never have re-married. Why bother? I am past the age of wanting to have more children. I am established in my way of life, as is my wife. So the ONLY reason to get married again at my age is for love. And "love" means fidelity to me. As I believe it should for everyone. Sadly, this is not how it is for so many. What can I say? They are not me, and I am not them. We all choose our own paths and our own morality. But I would not want my morality determined by legislation. Or for that matter, by anyone but myself. That is how it works in real life.
I don't know if Don Bright is any better or worse than other guys who do what he does for a living. If you don't think what he does is moral, then that's your call. I know nothing of DB personally. Never been in a Bright office. Don't even know anyone who has been. But I certainly know how the business works. And like any business, his depends on getting customers. And making money off the customers. Is he doing something immoral? What would it take to make you respect him? I know this is off topic, but I don't see how DB gets thrown into this discussion. Has he somehow personally damaged you? Have I somehow personally damaged Max401? I don't get these personal conflicts. But this....this really does confuse me a bit. Here we essentially agree that what Clinton did was despicable. But because I said that I believed Nixon did worse, you take this as me defending Clinton. I am not at all. Just pointing out that we have had our fair share of unworthy men in the White House. And while Dubya has not been accused of any murdering, drug smuggling or rigging of elections, it seems clear to me that his agenda is politics for profit.
Optionall, I think you should throw your hat in the ring for the '04 election. We need a guy like you. I would set my schedule around your press conferences. And I would assume you would have MrMarket on a little leash like Jabba the Hut had Salacious Crumb while you sat in the oval office. Time for some humor and morality in the White House. They need not be mutually exclusive.
Peace,
Rs8.5