I don't like racist commentary one bit. Bit I don't think your definition and mine are anywhere in the same universe. You label stuff racist because it is inconvenient. For example, pointing to Chicago violence and then indicating the problem being in the black communities, and how it is a product of the destruction of the family in black culture to you, is racist. To me, those are facts and acknowledging a problem.
You label anything you don't like as racist or bigoted. That's what people who label do.