Quote from jsmooth:
Your problem wont be solved by 'doing the opposite'....the problem you have is that <b>your not letting your winners run</b>, and your not cutting your losers as soon as you know the trade is wrong.
All you have to do is alter your trading approach so your risk:reward ratio on winning trades is 3:1 (or more)....then you only have to be correct 40% of the time and you'll still make money.
I also had this problem at one time....Try doing this (to learn how to hold onto winners - it worked for me):
If i had a winning trade (the trade was working)...and i started to feel the impulse to liquidate (get out of the position too soon). I would force myself to wait 2-4 candle bars. So if i'm trading off a 60min chart, the trade was working, and i start to get an impulse to liquidate, i would force myself to wait 2-4 more bars (120-240 more minutes)....Usually, if the trade was a winner, within that time period the trade would keep working and trade higher. Note: I still have my stop and limit in place.
To learn how to take only trades with a high risk:reward ratio I also started to trade calls & puts. And i wouldnt take the trade unless the risk:reward was around 3:1....so if i bought an option for $100. My price target would be AT LEAST $300 (option value at expiration). Using options forced me to only pick high r:r trades because I would not liquidate the position until a day before expiration...So i was either right (if the options ITM)/wrong (expires worthless)/or basically a scratch trade (if it was somewhere in between). But i did notice that I never had too many scratch trades - my option was either way past my price target, or expired worthless...This also was a great way to test my trading strategy (if i had a lot of scratch trades, obviously my trading plan had no edge).
Also note that, the lower the time frame your trading on, the more difficult it is to find high risk:reward trades....because you're going to be trading a lot of random market noise. If thats your problem...you probably dont have any trading edge (all your doing is trading noise)....to solve that, you might want to try trading a different time frame. If you usually trade off a 5min chart (with no success), try trading off a 10-15 minute chart.
I had the same problem, doing the things above helped me solve those problems.