I find Japanese overall incredibly sensible people. Sure, each culture exhibits peculiarities (such as salarymen who do all sorts of weird stuff when they blow off steam). But overall Japanese are in my experience the kindest, friendliest, though not always the most forgiving bunch I came across. How some cultures still get incensed each time a nationalist Japanese farts escapes me.
I'm mostly Irish by upbringing (American mom) and I certainly don't hate the English, our real history is very intertwined and complex however I have beaten the head off a couple of English guys who were making arsy comments to try and intimidate / humiliate me. Only two in nearly ten years living there off and on. Raised eyebrows more often.
There are times when you let somthing go and times when you really just don't because you are a man and aggressors are going to get different responses as you mature. Conflict is a skill that must be learned and practiced, use it or lose it. I'm pretty good at applying the correct amount and type of response as I had three older brothers. I know when something was overall unintended and just a momentary thing, every dog has his day.
I have a feeling of one looks at childhood development in Korea and Japan etc. one will find a reason for adults not being sensible.
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