Quote from Hydroblunt:
You're nuts, maybe you went overboard on the high end escorts and the cocaine. One can live very well on 100k a year in NYC, as long as you exercise some fiscal discipline.
You do not need a car in NYC, not at all. All those cost savings help pay for the cost of housing. The convenience factor is invaluable, you save a lot of time and time=money. Then there is the networking factor, obviously not free.
Maybe you like living in the middle of nowhere, but to say that NYC is the 2nd worst place to live is absurd.
You don't need a car, but the subway is hardly a pleasnt commuting experience. It's $76/month for a metro card, but I'd say the time you spend commuting will essentially offset any gains you make by not having a car in suburbia somewhere.
You don't save time at all living here, and I live right next to central park. You won't save time because: either you pay delivery fees for grocery to be delivered to you, or you waste time lugging groceries around. The cost of everything goes up because the real estate costs are factored into all the prices in Manhattan. There is no Wal-Mart -- just lots of small non-chain stores that price things much higher.
I pay $1500/month for an apartment (500sq ft) on the west side that's 1 bedroom and a pre-war building. It is hardly luxurious and it's somewhat of a hassle to deal with the issues of an old building. Not to mention there is no elevator, so I walk up to the 5th floor. That's what you get for $1500, and it's a substantial reduction in quality of life.
I was trying to save money, but I think I made a mistake. Really, a sane place to live in Manhattan outside of Harlem is $2200/month minimum. Brooklyn gets you more for $1500, but your commute time goes up substantially and your subway ride becomes longer.
Honestly, this place is really hyped up. I think the hype comes from TV shows that have glamorized the lifestyle here, but the lifestyle here [clubs, night life] isn't really all that suited for someone who lives a straight-edge lifestyle and really just wants to make a buck. Also, a lot of jobs require that you wear a suit and tie. So what happens is that your dry cleaning costs go up.
I think I made a huge, huge mistake moving to NYC. As far as networking, ... no one who's making any real money will network with you for anything. It's a cut-throat environment, and for as many jobs as there are, most of the ones worth having require some elite credentials.
The only thing I can say is -- it really depends on the person. I'm not particularly outgoing and don't enjoy socializing. In fact, I downright hate people but love technology. If magical doors really do open up for social people, then consider my perspective null and void. But nothing has happened in NYC that makes me say my life has improved.
If anything, I will state the following:
- I've never made as much money as I have in NYC before
- I've never lived a shittier quality of life
- I'm very fiscally responsible
So the end conclusion is: The money that you make here in most jobs is not enough to offset the degradation in quality of life that you'll undoubtedly encounter if you make ANYTHING less than $200,000.