"You sound as though you are trading scared. You have thought of every conceivably bad thing that can happen to you"
it's actually the exact opposite. i am trading confidently. i have a very detailed trading manual, i fastiduously document all trades (about 20 factors per trade), and while i don't LIKE getting stopped out. i'm zen about it.
iow, i can enter trades with confidence because i know my setups work (some over 70% of the time), and i know exactly how much i am risking (with a tick ot two of slippage wiggle room) in my trades.
that's a confident, empowering and positive expectancy way to trade.
with your mental stops, etc. you never have any idea how much you are risking per trade. it's all subjective. also, when a trade moves past your mental stop, unless you are a robot, you will necessarily NOT be in the calm frame of mind to make the BEST decision possible.
i make my entry and stop decisions PRIOR to entering the trade. i am not invested, psychologically or economically in my being right or wrong in my analysis. when you adjust stops out/use mental stops when in a trade you ARE.
you are way more subject to cognitive dissonance and erosion of judgment. because you are human.
so, aside from the mathematical concerns you have psychological concerns.
trading my way is confidence inspiring. i know my positive expectancy, and the statistics on entering trade X with stop Y. i have literally HUNDREDs of trials on these setups.
often the best trades are the hardest to enter. since i KNOW my setups, i can enter when the hoi polloi are panicking, because i know my risk, and my statistical probability of reward.
trading without stops (and mental stops are the functional equivalent) is truly trading WITH fear. fear that your stop will be hit, so you make it a mental stop and then make a subjective decision when price action hits that level. you add a contract, then see it go another X points against you and you WILL be less rational than you were initially.
the WORST thing that can happen is the trade turns out profitable because that will reinforce behavior that at a minimum is suboptimal and at a maximum is disastrous.
there is a huge difference between expecting the worst (i don't) and being prepared for its eventuality. the latter is prudent. the former is worthless
i've spoken to brokers, losing traders, and winning traders. i was trained by a very savvy trader. trading is very much about psychology, and what you are espousing is VERY understandable considering human psychology, and it's exactly WHY the markets ARE so tradeable. it's irrational, negative expectancy, and contains open ended risk. it cries out for fat tail ass-whuppin!

it's actually the exact opposite. i am trading confidently. i have a very detailed trading manual, i fastiduously document all trades (about 20 factors per trade), and while i don't LIKE getting stopped out. i'm zen about it.
iow, i can enter trades with confidence because i know my setups work (some over 70% of the time), and i know exactly how much i am risking (with a tick ot two of slippage wiggle room) in my trades.
that's a confident, empowering and positive expectancy way to trade.
with your mental stops, etc. you never have any idea how much you are risking per trade. it's all subjective. also, when a trade moves past your mental stop, unless you are a robot, you will necessarily NOT be in the calm frame of mind to make the BEST decision possible.
i make my entry and stop decisions PRIOR to entering the trade. i am not invested, psychologically or economically in my being right or wrong in my analysis. when you adjust stops out/use mental stops when in a trade you ARE.
you are way more subject to cognitive dissonance and erosion of judgment. because you are human.
so, aside from the mathematical concerns you have psychological concerns.
trading my way is confidence inspiring. i know my positive expectancy, and the statistics on entering trade X with stop Y. i have literally HUNDREDs of trials on these setups.
often the best trades are the hardest to enter. since i KNOW my setups, i can enter when the hoi polloi are panicking, because i know my risk, and my statistical probability of reward.
trading without stops (and mental stops are the functional equivalent) is truly trading WITH fear. fear that your stop will be hit, so you make it a mental stop and then make a subjective decision when price action hits that level. you add a contract, then see it go another X points against you and you WILL be less rational than you were initially.
the WORST thing that can happen is the trade turns out profitable because that will reinforce behavior that at a minimum is suboptimal and at a maximum is disastrous.
there is a huge difference between expecting the worst (i don't) and being prepared for its eventuality. the latter is prudent. the former is worthless
i've spoken to brokers, losing traders, and winning traders. i was trained by a very savvy trader. trading is very much about psychology, and what you are espousing is VERY understandable considering human psychology, and it's exactly WHY the markets ARE so tradeable. it's irrational, negative expectancy, and contains open ended risk. it cries out for fat tail ass-whuppin!
