I can see making a case for not scaling with very thick futures contracts like the bonds or the minis. That makes some sense. It's painful, and I've had this happen much too often to be sitting on the bid, watching trades go off there, then have the market take off without you....still sitting on what used to be the bid. OUCH. That's a case of being right and missing the entry. But scaling or paying up for the offer can really hurt if you are scalping.
Now when it comes to stocks, especially the more volatile ones, I can't pick a level. Period. I generally know how I think the trade will progress, but there's no way of knowing that it'll come down to xx cents.
Let's say a stock is strong, and I want to be long. The market pulls in a bit. That's my entry. Not 5 cents from the previous high, etc. because it may pull back two cents, then the buyers come piling in again. I'll scale into these all the time. I'll think of my average entry price as say, 5 cents down, as in the above example, so I'll bid 2 cents down, 4 cents, 6 cents, and 8 cents. If I get filled on them all, then I'll be in the same position as if I had entered the whole deal at 5 cents. If I'm wrong, then my same rules apply about getting out. If I'm right, but my 5 cents is wrong, I'll at least have a chance to catch some of the position to make a profit.
Sure, if the trade always went 5 cents then took off, I'd only get half my position on my winning trades. No argument there. Of course, if I knew that, then I wouldn't scale. I scale because I cannot say what price the stock will trade to.