I started out in my "trading education" doing option spreads. It was a disaster. Find a good options book or good free online material, or tutorials from your broker. Books by the author and owner of "optionetics.com" will only teach you the basics of which tutorials can be even found free online. Optionetics red herrings you into "advanced methods" which I suspect they won't actually teach you until they leech every grand they can out of you with upsells of further "masters courses" and seminars and mentoring etc.
Now I'm back to option spreads again after three years. The main thing is timing the adjustment. If you adjust too late, it's too late. You don't want to adjust if you can't help it because while you have a better chance of ending up positive, usually your theta differential is smaller by expiration so you can make overall less profit max. . The second main thing is picking the underlying(if you trying a spread on a liquid stock; indexes are more popular for "consistent" monthly "income" option spreads) and finding one that is likely to stick to a range in the next month until expiration or so.
And that comes with some directional trading (or papertrading and/or backtesting) experience. so I'd recommend learning some fundamental price action somewhere. there are threads here on ET that cover all those and recommend where to go.
One could just use delta neutral strategies (Iron Condor, Calendars, etc.) without learning price action or no experience in attempting directional trading maybe, but having learned something about directional trading , candlesticks and price action can only help in seeing what's going on and being better able to see probable price movement in the future with some degree of success than being completely blind to future price movement.
As for being a good stock trader vs. options. A good stock trader can also use single "naked" options that are not spreads to add leverage to his directional play, as a substitute for buying or shorting the stock outright. Of course that entails more short term risk along with theta decay. You also get a bottom max loss which is about the same as your initial cost of doing the naked option trade , but it can be very big depending on your risk level and amount of option contracts one chooses. See Neke's thread on his "2011: Battered Account". He seems to trade directionally with big option positions.
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