Thanks dolphin. Here is another post I read recently on ET from an experienced trader. It basically reiterates what I just wrote. I'm thinking this is an integral part of the grail that all of us are seeking (maybe its a bigger part of the grail?) That is making it, keeping it and then having the patience and discipline to walk away. I think anyone with a minimal amount of screen time watching the DOM and having an understanding of S/R should be able to do 1-2 pts a day consistently, there's the starting point. Anyway here is the post from Handle123...
"All the years I been trading, with proper experience can make 2-4 points consistently, but that's it doing volume and best to own or lease a seat, and either quit or reduce contract size after goal is made. But it takes years to understand this. All I ever hear from others is how much they left on the table. Takes so much patience and being able to accept that smaller daily average is how to make money in this game. Trading same size all day will eventually wear you down. Make it early in morning and quit. Start with a one lot and build up, and enjoy your life after you make it."