Quote from Rearden Metal:
IF he really is self-made wealthy at age 22, conceited behavior is perfectly natural, and practically unavoidable. Quick wealth in one's early 20's after a humble childhood/adolescence is an intoxicating stimutant, a thousand times stronger than the world's finest cocaine.
Sex, drugs, love- nothing comes close to the feeling of quick self earned wealth at such a young age.
The high is not permanent either, as it fades within 2 or 3 years.
Trust me, I know.
:eek: Umm... That was indeed one of the most humbling things I've read in years...
Wealth sure can be intoxicating - unfortunately.
Unfortunately it can also cost you a lot of friends, and create family envy.
I used to have my JD business in my dad's gallery when, after some time part-time trading, I basically "walked away" from it with a few words that implied "Sorry dad, but I'm making a lot more than you now..." Imagine the look on his face.
Yes, I realize I'm conceited. Not only as a result of circumstances, though, but I think more so as a means of self-protection. Trust me - Arrogance is a great way of keeping people, girls and false friends at bay. And for what I know, the few really good friends I have are kind of conceited, too. I know a lot of arrogant people and it doesn't bother me at all. I believe that people who are smart enough just see right through the "shield" that is arrogance, anyway. And those that aren't... Well...
Lesson learnt, and a wise post to think about from RM. I think I'll remember this post for a while.
Rearden, do we have something in common? Love to add you to my list, too - If you don't mind.
Shame to know it should fade soon, though... Ah well - plenty of time left to lose it all and start from scratch again... :eek:
Moving 2 my new pad on Tuesday - So I'm off to a goodbye-party now. Have a nice Sunday nite folks!
S