I went to a lecture by Jonathan Gray.. his latest work breaks it down all the way to the lowest level of psychology regarding what men really need from a wife.. men need to come home to a supportive situation with a meal, some love and peace and quiet, etc.. then they can build up their testosterone and go out and earn a living the next day.... once you understand what you really need and want from a woman you won't settle for less because less is hell, less is ongoing stress and it will kill you... forget what all these useless intellectual assholes are telling everybody about liberated women, if a woman is not going to cook and take care of a husband then forget marriage...
if you are coming home to some arguments and some nagging and the usual shit, then stop doing it. If your GF shows no interest in being an actual wife that supports her man, break off with her, if she has no interest in cooking before marriage, she won't after, if she wants to dominate and use you before marriage it will only get worse after... if she seems totally interested in what you can do for her and there's nothing about what she can do for you, dump the useless asshole, she's going to be useless to you in a big awful way if you are married to her and she's clueless about what makes a family, what makes a household work... I'm talking to lots of women nowadays about what men need, they are all Americans and they all say "who wants to do that?" So I say, (to myself mainly,) no problem ladies, just don't be bothering me about anything because you are essentially of zero value to me... it's not that complicated.. I do have one galpal that is very spiritual and she can tell me things that nobody could, but cooking? Forget it, she lives on TV dinners and is not too healthy herself, pretty muchly useless to me in that regard, and cleaning? Forget it, her place is a mess...
Remember Richard Boone as Paladin? He had a Chinese cook, a room in a Hotel and a GF that seemed to be a hooker... maybe he was on to something, he wasn't going to settle down and be a family man but he had what he needed... He was too cool, he was the President of the San Francisco Stock Investor's Club!! That's some Black and White TV trivia if ever there was some...
if you are coming home to some arguments and some nagging and the usual shit, then stop doing it. If your GF shows no interest in being an actual wife that supports her man, break off with her, if she has no interest in cooking before marriage, she won't after, if she wants to dominate and use you before marriage it will only get worse after... if she seems totally interested in what you can do for her and there's nothing about what she can do for you, dump the useless asshole, she's going to be useless to you in a big awful way if you are married to her and she's clueless about what makes a family, what makes a household work... I'm talking to lots of women nowadays about what men need, they are all Americans and they all say "who wants to do that?" So I say, (to myself mainly,) no problem ladies, just don't be bothering me about anything because you are essentially of zero value to me... it's not that complicated.. I do have one galpal that is very spiritual and she can tell me things that nobody could, but cooking? Forget it, she lives on TV dinners and is not too healthy herself, pretty muchly useless to me in that regard, and cleaning? Forget it, her place is a mess...
Remember Richard Boone as Paladin? He had a Chinese cook, a room in a Hotel and a GF that seemed to be a hooker... maybe he was on to something, he wasn't going to settle down and be a family man but he had what he needed... He was too cool, he was the President of the San Francisco Stock Investor's Club!! That's some Black and White TV trivia if ever there was some...
