Quote from Golflyer:
I once again appreciate the feedback and honesty.
You sound like a sincere guy, so I'll be honest with you. Is it impossible to make money trading forex? Of course not, that would be a ridiculous thing to say.
However....
You have done some searches and have started to put the pieces together. The picture is looking so bad that you were compelled to post on a public forum saying that you've heard all these bad things, and are they true?
The first response you got is from a reasonable sounding poster, confirming everything you've heard and warning you to stay away. In addition, you have likely been doing this process at other forums as well. Your response to this post indicates that you really don't want to believe what you yourself have suggested. I'll show you what I mean. Here are the real answers to some of your questions.
I am still trying to get my arms around why firms like FXCM, GFT and others can stay in business if so many people are losing money because of their trade practices.
Why? If you hear this about an industry, from so many different sources (all those different forex forums you are going to), then why are you still wondering? If I tell you that you'll burn your hand by putting it on a stove, and if everyone else tells you the same, do you wonder why we are saying it?
Why is GFT and FXCM able to draw new clients...at all?
Are you asking why people get defrauded? It happens every day, all over the world. It's because people are credulous and naive and greedy and lazy.
Are you suggesting there really is NO free market for traders with the likes of FXCM, GFT, etc?
By now you've heard several people tell you
straight out that this is the case. Why are you asking if it is being
'suggested'?
If clients of these firms are not trading a true free market, wouldn't the prices quoted get out of line with other dealers?
Sorry, but is this a serious question? You don't think a forex bucketshop has the ability to get a quote from the interbank market and keep their 'quotes' in line with that, or from other bucketshops?
With so many dealers, dont prices have to have some relationship to the true interbank market?
Again, you have been told how the system works. What is the relevance of this question? Here, you are essentially saying "I can hardly believe all of this is true!! Please, someone, tell me it isn't.'
Most people like you are in the following situation
1) They heard about something called 'forex trading' where you can make a lot of money
2) They have a small amount of capital, usually less than $10,000
3) They then open an account and lose their money and wonder what went wrong. This is the bread and butter of the forex shops.
You seem to have one thing over those people in the sense that you have tried to get some information, and what do you know - the information you are getting is all warning you away. The majority of the people who are encouraging you to try are the ones who can make money off your attempts.
The question remains - if you want to try trading, and you are interested in trading currencies, why not trade currency futures? At the very least, pick your broker with extreme care. You are still asking questions about places that are known to you to be bucketshops, and that is not a good sign. Every time someone posts like this (and it happens a lot these days) the end result is - IB is the only broker for spot forex.