Trading involves both winning and losing. So it's preferable to refine your trading approach, practice better risk management, or simply figuring out how to deal with losses better rather than simply denying the loss.
%%If one feels down or depressed, a change of environment is good. Went on a trip to south America alone for two weeks during fall of 2021. Loved every minute of it.
Traveling, exploring the world and see new places make me feel good, upbeat and happy mood.
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I did that 2 Argentina + Uruguay;
loved most of it. It did not really help or hurt depression much; but i went after the Falklands war.
... would be nice to share it with others and get some positive feedback but not many people are impressed by the geometric features of quantum field theory even tho it describes reality..
Money keeps you isolated and drives away friends who used to be close to you. Money obscures the true nature of the relationship and gives you a false sense of security and affection from people that you think are drawn to you because of who you are but in fact were drawn to you because of your money. Money inflates or at least helps to inflate your sense of yourself to an unhealthy level that was not genuine. Money makes everything easy to fix when more real and arduous efforts are supposed to be spent to find the real solution and the root cause of the problem. Money makes you reckless and gives you a false sense of invincibility when you are just as vulnerable as the next guy/gal.
I can list many more ways where having money makes you worse than not. True in the end, it is you that really made those bad decisions that made your life worse but money is a very powerful enabler.
hi Stochastix,
I lost a friend to depression a few months back and having seen it upfront and closeup, every single one of us - the friends left behind - have been kicking themselves over what we could have done, should have done and might have said that could have made a difference.
So apologies if this seems a bit full on, but at least you know why. Here's what the fuck I wish I'd told him and so now say to you. Let's take as a given all the obvious things, exercise, new social groups, meditation, professional help, meds all that stuff. All of which can help, many of which mentioned so not knocking any of it or the suggestions so far.
But I just want to major on one single thing here - gut-brain axis.
I'm not medically trained but just read through this and see if it makes sense. I'm certain if it does to you, you'll grab it with both hands and take the right steps to sort it out. And when you do, you'll be able to help others in ways you've never imagined.
My friend's experience of depression was best described to me as a pattern of negative thoughts, and endless loop that would constantly repeat, and created an internal negative monologue he could never switch off.
So, you've got a problem in the brain - a destructive hard-wiring if you will. But the brains thoughts, feelings, emotions etc are directly linked to the gut.
read the whole thing:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6032096/#:~:text=Gut microbiota abnormalities can directly,to the gut microbiota hypothesis.
but the takeaway :
Gut microbiota abnormalities can directly induce depression, gut microbiota can influence the behavior and mind via the microbiota–gut–brain axis, and microbiota–gut–brain axis dysfunction is the main pathophysiology of depression, according to the gut microbiota hypothesis.
Your gut bacteria- collectively the biome has a feedback loop between the brain and the gut. Both affect each other. Meaning your thoughts affect your gut, and your gut affects your thoughts. You can induce depression in mice (noone's bold enough to do the human versions of this) by changing their gut bacteria, as has been proven thousands of times (you can search easily for the papers on this). Your gut thrives on the food you eat, and there's research I'd read a while back that shows that the emotions you have *at the time* of eating influence your biome.
For this reason, improving the plasticity of your brain, and improving your biome should both yield results.
1) Brain:
a) MDMA https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/mdma-depression
b) psilocybin / magic mushrooms: https://eu.usatoday.com/story/news/health/2022/04/12/magic-mushrooms-depression-study/7287234001/
I don't have an easy answer as to how you do this in a clinical setting yet, maybe others have an idea?
2) Gut:
a) probiotics, fermented foods, low inflammation diet (no processed carbs, high fibrous veg etc). read up on Tim Spector, a prof who specialises in microbiome research
b) timing. Take every opportunity to eat with others and if you're eating alone, consider meditation style exercises prior to eating.
The one takeaway - don't wait for the answer to become mainstream. It takes decades to turn medical treatment direction around. Look into it, and I'm sure you'll find it makes sense. And good luck fella, really.
sleep, how you handle stress and food in that order. I preach it all that time. During sleep the glymphatic system which was discovered not many years ago works like the lymphatic system but for the brain. To take out the trash. It works best when we’re have good deep sleep. Peace.
edit. video looks like it has good info. Cant wait to dig into it. I have done Ice bath before and can assure you it is followed by one of the best sleeps I have ever had.