Here are some hard and fast rules about life in general:
1) Everyone puts on a good show when they want to remove money from your hands.
2) Once they have removed the money from your hands, then their attitude suddenly changes. The show is over.
3) Once the money leaves your hand, 90% of the time you will NEVER see it again.
Examples:
- You interview for a job and put on a good show. You make promises to work hard and do your best. You are hired and when the first paycheck is placed in your hand, you then proceed to actually work 2 hours a day while filling the day with other non-work related things. Your employer never sees the money they invested in you ever again.
- You have a roommate who puts on a good show about needing $100. You give him the money. He never pays it back.
- President Obama puts on a good show about the need for healthcare reform. You buy into it. Your taxes get raised and the money leaves your hand. You never use healthcare and see a bunch of supposedly "handicapped" people and illegal aliens walking into a clinic and getting free medical care. You never see the money ever again. Meanwhile, Obama's attitude has changed.
I could go on and on with examples of how this manifests in different forms. The moral of the story is that a show will oftentimes be put on for you when another person wishes to take money from your hand. Once the money leaves your hand then attitudes change and the chances of the money actually returning to your hands become slim to none.
So do not give away your money...keep it in your hand. If it leaves your hand not only will you not get paid back but the attitudes will significantly change to your disadvantage...oftentimes relationships and friendships are oftentimes destroyed as a result of someone not paying loaned out money back...Throughout life, you will be tested many times in many odd and different ways. Keep the money in the bank, keep the money in your wallet. You will realize a loss if you fall for someone's "good show" and let it go. Most of the time, the money is usually not put to good use and wasted...
1) Everyone puts on a good show when they want to remove money from your hands.
2) Once they have removed the money from your hands, then their attitude suddenly changes. The show is over.
3) Once the money leaves your hand, 90% of the time you will NEVER see it again.
Examples:
- You interview for a job and put on a good show. You make promises to work hard and do your best. You are hired and when the first paycheck is placed in your hand, you then proceed to actually work 2 hours a day while filling the day with other non-work related things. Your employer never sees the money they invested in you ever again.
- You have a roommate who puts on a good show about needing $100. You give him the money. He never pays it back.
- President Obama puts on a good show about the need for healthcare reform. You buy into it. Your taxes get raised and the money leaves your hand. You never use healthcare and see a bunch of supposedly "handicapped" people and illegal aliens walking into a clinic and getting free medical care. You never see the money ever again. Meanwhile, Obama's attitude has changed.
I could go on and on with examples of how this manifests in different forms. The moral of the story is that a show will oftentimes be put on for you when another person wishes to take money from your hand. Once the money leaves your hand then attitudes change and the chances of the money actually returning to your hands become slim to none.
So do not give away your money...keep it in your hand. If it leaves your hand not only will you not get paid back but the attitudes will significantly change to your disadvantage...oftentimes relationships and friendships are oftentimes destroyed as a result of someone not paying loaned out money back...Throughout life, you will be tested many times in many odd and different ways. Keep the money in the bank, keep the money in your wallet. You will realize a loss if you fall for someone's "good show" and let it go. Most of the time, the money is usually not put to good use and wasted...
