Quote from dagnyt:
If he's going to do that, he's better off trading the stocks that he knows.
That's where we began. day trading stocks. He was looking to use options as a replacement. Hopefully, he has changed his mind.
Mark
Hi Mark, thanks for your very informative explanation and yes you are convincing. It's unusual to see someone with a genuine concern for others and I appreciate that.
For the person who suggested QQQQ, I have found an edge with a few stocks. But as I explained, I cannot trade any size with them. I'm looking for moves of 2-3% on average, so now I understand that options aren't going to do anything for me there.
I was naively thinking that if the stock goes up 2-3% that the option could go up 2-3% and that going the option route would let me trade a much larger size.
So I bought "Options Made Easy" and well it's not easy at all. I'm half way through the book and as confused as ever.

Back to the person who suggested NQ (nasdaq futures) instead of QQQQ, I'm currently trading the e-minis but my strategy is totally different there as the edge for the small stocks doesn't work with the futures. No surprise there, there are millions of people all over the world looking for edges whereas small stocks often receive little or no attention.

I'm still interested in learning to use options as a hedge for long term trades however, so I'll keep reading the book.
For example, I made a big mistake and bought GDX a few months ago. Actually the mistake was not to have used my stoploss. I think that if I had bought some OTM puts on it back then then I could have reduced risk and probably even made money on it.
This is a totally different topic as we're not talking about daytrading here. But does this make sense? Or is it better to just use a stop loss and exit the stock? It seems that by buying puts one limits the downside but the insurance has a cost which can impact the upside. When the upside target is 2x then the cost of the insurance seems minimal.
Thanks again to all for the input and suggestions. The suggestion for nasdaq futures is a very good one, just not what I need for the stock edge. So for that I'll just trade what I think I can get away with.