Daytrading & Divorce.....

[nooby_mcnoob]

Judges don't like a history of that when you're arranging parenting orders.

"Your honour, I would absolutely love to go to trial and show you how deeply I care about these kids but as you can see, it creates a tension between the parents which affects the kids. After <X> years, I would much rather have this done sooner rather than later, especially since <proof> shows that the mother is only doing this to prolong the fight for no benefit to the children. This is in the children's best interests. We all know that divorced children do worse when the parents fight."

You'd be surprised what judges will listen to when presented with proof. I actually had a judge say to both lawyers "I'm not sure why the two parties are fighting," after one such speech. During this speech, I even said "She was my first friend as a child and my best friend, I have no hard feelings towards her."

 

[nooby_mcnoob]

My favourite way of showing I don't care is big, bear hugs whenever I see her and her family. It drives them NUTS but my ex father in law is absolutely in love with me as a result

 

[Rationalize]

I give less of a sh*t than that about these people, and lack the motivation to engage in such games.

 

[nooby_mcnoob]

Yet you'll leave the country and restrict your own freedom of movement? It's definitely a tradeoff, but I'm not sure I could give that up.

 

[dextor]

If you let that affect you, it affects your trading too.
Best way is just to shower your kid with loads of love and affection. That's what matters most the rest just doesn't anymore. Don't give the undeserving any attention.

 

[JSOP]

It's not real easy to be in a positive state of mind when the state that took your fortune is then taking most of your income, for "child support".

Watching that money not be spent on the child is unpleasant.

Not having proper access as not great.

Doesn't feel especially free.

Do you still pay child support if you get shared custody? If no, I find shared custody is best; both pays their share of supporting the child as it should be and less chance of money spent on herself and not on the child.

Can you also order an audit of how the child support money is spent on the child(ren) if needs to be? To me, the State should do a better in monitoring how child support is being spent and ensuring that it is spent on the "child". I mean if you ordered one spouse to pay the money then you should make sure it goes to where it should go when the paying spouse is not able to monitor it.

 

[JSOP]

During this speech, I even said "She was my first friend as a child and my best friend, I have no hard feelings towards her."

You are one smooth fox, mcnoob.

 

[volpri]

Ss12,

Yeah I'm joke. Whatever you say man. People hate what they don't understand. You should private message so I can show you how to control a woman and keep your money in your pocket. As I said before, only a weak man talk about money and women in the same sentence. You don't have to understand it, just respect it. Like think about it, how I woman suppose to leave a man or divorce him. Where I'm from and how i was raised that makes no sense to me. Guess it's a culuture thing. But some men clueless about satisfying a woman anyway.

I been told yall women is my least worry. Yall keep on quoting me. I keep telling yall women my least of worry, they all do what I say anyway.
I got no problem with women. Trust that. To be honest man, Im tired of married women approachin me for real. Married women to talkative for me and they really messed up to me. Always talking about they husband and stuff. I use to ask them so why you don't leave the husband, they all had the same answer, money and kids. Crazy.

Of course the women i mess with are fine. That's a no brainer man. Man, I gotta better things to worry about then women. That's super easy for me with this women story.

keep doing that and one day some dude is gonna clean your plow for you.

 

[Rationalize]

Do you still pay child support if you get shared custody? If no, I find shared custody is best; both pays their share of supporting the child as it should be and less chance of money spent on herself and not on the child.

Can you also order an audit of how the child support money is spent on the child(ren) if needs to be? To me, the State should do a better in monitoring how child support is being spent and ensuring that it is spent on the "child". I mean if you ordered one spouse to pay the money then you should make sure it goes to where it should go when the paying spouse is not able to monitor it.

She will fight tooth and nail to be the primary carer, because more time with the kid, means she gets paid.

Audit. lol, no. They'd probably say that's "financial abuse", invasion of her privacy, etc.

 

[lawrence-lugar]

If they do the work to maintain their looks, some older women can still be pretty attractive
Karen McDougal comes to mind

Older women look like beef jerky and leather up-close.
All of that beauty at that age is through trick photography and magical lighting and a ton of makeup and foundation.

Their bones and foundation is crumbling and diminishing and weaking like an old wooden log cabin in the woods...constantly creeks and makes weird sounds and has patches.
All middle-aged and older and senior men...would like to get their way with a younger girl. -- whether they admit it or not.

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