after reading some replies was thinking about this song
Here is an even better one.Excellent advice. Just a great video.
I married a high conflict woman, and divorce went pretty much as expected. 6-7 years of court, multiple agreements not adhered to (by her), etc. etc. This is the tax I paid for making a mistake many years ago. We've been divorced longer than we've been married and it's still ongoing in various ways. You see, high conflict people cannot fathom that no one wants to be with them, they believe the other party must be wrong.
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40 years in feb this year. I was 22 she was 20 when we met. I met her because her 1976 baby blue Nova quit runnng at an intersection in the highway. My two brothers happened along and helped out a damsel in distress. He was on leave for a few weeks from the military. I was in the yard washing or waxing my Honda 554 motorcycle when up they came. The damsel stepped out and smiled. I immediately liked her. We all went dancing that night (back in the days of the discotecs).
I worked in a grocery store. She came in with her smile. So i walked over and asked her out on a date. She said yes. So I picked her up at her house and off we went on the motorcycle to dine at Red Lobster. So our romance began over some seafood and wine at Red Lobster. Right at six months later i proposed. She said yes. We were planning a big church wedding. But decided, ourselves, it was going to cost too much (we were paying for the wedding as she was the baby of the family with a slew of sisters so her Dad and Mom just didn’t pay for weddings). Anyway, I called a preacher I knew and he said meet me over at George and his wifes house... on such and such a day. So we went early, fixed things up, brought a boom box with Debbie Boon singing “you light up my life”. We invited guests. Preacher shows up and is taken back as I don’t think he expected so many people. So, the wedding starts. We had already bought her wedding dress so she walks down the hallway while “you light up my life” is playing. We got married and rode off in the baby blue chevrolet Nova with cans banging and streamers flying.
Feb of this year was our 40th anniversay. I bought her a nice diamond ring as our original wedding bands got stolen several years back.
We received i think some good advice shortly after our wedding. Basically, it was don't end the day and go to bed at night at odds with one another. Fix the problem ..the disagreement..before going to sleep. Wake up the next morning with a new day! I will admit there have been a few times (but not many) we didn’t follow that advice. But almost always, without fail, upon awakening the next morning we fix the problem.
Sounds like your ex might be sick with some kind of bipolar disorder or something. Has she ever see somebody? I mean femme fatale sounds fascinating in books or in the movies but it's not fun really living with one irl; it's extremely stressful. Your ex should really see somebody otherwise if she gets re-married or get in another relationship, she will just ending up making someone else miserable.
You are a joke. Would love to see your definition of a "fine women" that you "own". LOL.Volpri,
Stop being stupid man and playing around. You know exactly what I mean. I'm the boss and lion in my house. They don't boss me, but it's my responsibility to make sure the overall happiness and safety is secure. We don't talk about no ice cream and stuff. I'm just saying that divorce stuff is for weaklings. I can walk up to a fine woman right now and tell her be with me and she ain't going nowhere, and she will say ok. Real men just don't think about that divorce. I own the woman, not the other way around. She my property for life. And that's the way I think. This is clear upfront.
I have four pockets full of cash and several dingbats a phone call away who can polish my pole.
For sure. Got on that 3 years before I filed for divorceI hope you had your pipes snipped otherwise those dingbats, when they sniff your pockets are full of cash, could sperm jack you and put you on child support for the next 18 years.

You are a joke. Would love to see your definition of a "fine women" that you "own". LOL.
But as they say ignorance is bliss.
Edit: sorry have to continue...I'm far from a feminist, but if your posts are indictitive of your intellectual capacity you really are too ignorant to trade. Even more so to even put such crap out there, those who even have such opinions are usually smart enough to keep them to themselves.