Sounds like you should recommend your lawyer to @David Donner. Still 60% of everything??!!! That is STEEP!!![]()
I missed this part. Let's say you go to court and you get a judgement for 50%. How much do you think you will have spent in time and money to get there? Make no mistake about it: divorce is better for men than women (unless you're a total loser of a guy). It's worth it for you to have it over tomorrow and pay an extra $100K or whatever so you can move on with your life.
However, as always, in life don't make the first offer.
