Quote from RCG Trader:
Nodoji,
If you dont take all of your signals then there must be something about your setup that you inherently dont trust.
What is that thing that you dont trust in your signals?
I agree with this, good point!
I've found that not taking signals is because of lack of confidence in the setup or strategy.
If you aren't fully confident about the setup, then it's usually because it doesn't fit all the criteria for entry. Easy decision then, just don't take the trade.
If you aren't fully confident about a strategy, then it means you haven't fully worked out and tested the strategy, and don't have enough experience with it. Maybe you saw it work a few times, but haven't rigorously tested it on paper and then with small size in real-time. Solution - test and experiment more with small size until your confidence increases based on good results. Maybe you are concerned about some other risk (e.g. maybe the signal is generated as the market is collapsing on news, and you are scared the collapse will accelerate) - this just means you haven't traded it enough where that risk was present, so you don't know if the signal/strategy is valid under those conditions.
Basically if you are hesitating on trades it's because you don't *know* how to trade that approach. You just have an idea of how it can be traded, but you aren't certain that this is the way to trade it. I.e. inexperience, lack of testing, lack of proof that it works. And how can you have confidence without experience, and without proof that it is sound? It would be totally irrational to be confident without those factors.
To use an analogy, think of a mid-level poker player who sees an opportunity to run a huge all-in bluff on the final round of betting. He is paralyzed by uncertainty because he is not sure whether it will work or not. Compare that to a veteran pro who has done this move 100s of times and knows that 70% of the time it will work. The veteran has an easy decision because he has the data, the proof that it is a winning odds play, so he makes the bluff effortlessly and automatically. The mid-level player hesitates, and even if he decides to run the bluff, there's a good chance he screws up the execution by looking nervous or hesitant. Ditto for the trader without experience at that strategy - even if you take the signal, you will probably exit too soon or set your stop too close or get freaked out by the first pullback if you don't have enough conviction in the signal.
There is no "magic bullet" to generate confidence. Confidence isn't a magical quality that you just will into existence. Rather, it is generated by knowledge, experience, testing, proof. The solution then is to do what it takes to have conviction in the decision, which is to research the heck out of it, then get experience at it whilst trading it on small size, until you see it working.