Truthfully RS7, I think your wife is being paranoid. There are a lot of really flaky people on this board, but the chance of real harm coming to you is just about nil.
If you want to quit because all this crap is annoying you, there is no need to post a whole thread on this. Just stop posting and start lurking. Or change your name and let us guess.
It pisses me off too when people attack things I say for no reason except to be a pain in the ass. That is what an ignore button is for.
I have met so many wonderful and helpful people on this board, I am willing to wade through the junk to get to the gold.
Besides, I am obsessed with posting. Just too much fun!