tao: I did worse than you! I had three types of things that made me rich in the bubble: buy and hold, trading stocks and trading leaps on what I considered solid companies. The first two things were on margin and the options, of course, were not. I didn't provide a safety net of any kind, put everything I had into the market and I believed the market would come back. So when stocks and options went down a lot I held for the comeback and when the margin calls started coming in, I used my excellent credit to borrow big money from credit card companies, developing debt for the first time in my life. The debt became astronomical before they decided I'd had enough credit, and I eventually had to sell stocks to cover the margin calls, but sold at much lower prices than if I hadn't borrowed money to cover the margin calls for such a long time. I sold LOW! And the leaps all expired worthless, because the bear lasted for three years -- they were in a separate account and I just held onto them till they were worthless. So, I ended up with no money, just large debt. Now I have rebuilt a reasonable sum, eliminated debt, but I have nothing like what I had or what I need.
Margin is only part of the problem. The rest lies in several things. One, Damir speaks of: recognizing you can be wrong and planning accordingly. I'm sure I'm not alone in having thought by March of 2000 that I was a genius at the stock market. Of course, I wasn't and am not even remotely a genius at the stock market. You have to realize that things can go against you and you need to develop exit criteria of some kind. Believe it or not, I still don't have a clear handle on that, after all this time. In some ways I think I'm still too wounded to deal with it properly.
I have a first cousin. We don't ordinarily speak, but she called when I was visiting my mother, during the bear market. I never thought she was all that bright, but she had stop losses on every one of her stocks and she came out of the bear market just fine. We still don't speak, but I no longer think she's not that bright. lol She preserved her fortune and I did not.
I'm coming back, through the market, because I'm the most stubborn person I know, and I didn't have a choice. I actually tried to get a job, but wouldn't you know it? At the time the stock market wiped me out, it also wiped out a lot of the rest of the people, and they just weren't hiring. I'm making more money in the market than I would have in a job, but that wasn't true for three whole years, and it has been rough. I feel like the generation that lived through the depression now.
If I'd sold everything on March 12, 2000 and gone short, I could have (almost) duked it out with Billy Gates (well, not that rich, but rich!). lol Now I'm scratching to rebuild. And, I believe now that I will do it.
Hey! Happy Birthday tomorrow! I hope it's a great day and herald's a terrific year.
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Be careful of margin, I am one of those idiots who made a bundle with margin and buy and hold in the bubble. Unfortunately I brain washed myself into thinking it would come back and so lost a fortune which i doubt i will ever see again. The comeback trail seems much longer and trecherous.