That's what I say about most of my over-40 website dates. Beauties now gone ...."big".
They hide their weight on the internet very well....no one gives the vital "stats"....and if you ask, you are toast. Catch-22 maximus.
Worst site: okcupid.com.
2 out of 100 are OK.
Well, it's to be expected. They can't compete with 20-somethings, so why try? It's all superficial at that age, anyways.
Ever notice the tendency of the over-40 crowd wearing shorter hair styles? They don't want to mess with it any more....
Anyways, my prefs will always be small (short), bright eyes, and cute smile...