Quote from quatron:
The ideology is to take more credit with a wider strikes but have greater skew risk. The wider the strikes the more you are exposed to the changes to the vol curve.
I believe it was me talking about the slope, not hedgeman. The slope itself does not have effect on the ratio but the change in slope if underlying gaps to a short strike does. E.g. both calls had the same IV when you put on a trade, so the slope was zero. This is very common for otm calls. But when underlying touches the short strike your short call IV will be much higher because the slope turned negative. You need to predict this and have such a ratio that you compensate the lower IV for long calls (with having more long calls).
Re your last question - the ratio you can do for calls depends not only on the slope but also on the time to expiry. You are right, if the slope is not steep (positive slope, meaning otm vols rise) than you can get more longs for each short. But if the slope is negative (otm vols fall) then the steeper the better.
Looks like hedgeman does not fully understand the effect of time-to-expiry and changes in the skew on backspread position. That's why he thinks it's dangerous to hold it in the front month. It is indeed more dangerous but not significantly and not hard to manage.