Creative First Date?

I am... · Jun 22, 2006

Quote from sulli:

What was your best and most creative first date? (I mean first date with a specific girl, not first date ever.)

I have a first date with a hot neighbor girl and I want to do something very unique? I'm tired of the typical date stuff. Help me get the ideas flowin'!

With my beloved, on a full moon, we used to enjoy going up to the Sea of Galilee and walk...on the water.

Namaste,

Jesus

sulli · Jun 24, 2006

Quote from Rearden Metal:

This is actually a very imporatant principle: Make her feel a (non-sexual) adrenaline rush first, and she'll probably give you what you want later. [/B]

Thought I'd give you guys an update.

I really liked the adrenaline rush idea; however, I don't have a motorcycle and there are no cliffs to dive off! So, we raced go-carts, which was a lot of fun!
Then to top off the adrenaline rush, I passed off Readen Metal's PnL as my own, wow did that ever work! (lol, just kidding on that last part.)

Afterwards we came back to my house were I had some fruit and wine waiting. We just kinda chilled out... w/ my jacuzzi on standby. Let's just say that my date ended sometime late this morning.

That's all folks! -thanks for the entertaining thread.

Rearden Metal · Jun 25, 2006

Quote from sulli:

Thought I'd give you guys an update.

I really liked the adrenaline rush idea; however, I don't have a motorcycle and there are no cliffs to dive off! So, we raced go-carts, which was a lot of fun!
Then to top off the adrenaline rush, I passed off Readen Metal's PnL as my own, wow did that ever work! (lol, just kidding on that last part.)

Afterwards we came back to my house were I had some fruit and wine waiting. We just kinda chilled out... w/ my jacuzzi on standby. Let's just say that my date ended sometime late this morning.

That's all folks! -thanks for the entertaining thread.

I love it when a plan comes together.

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Cutten · Jul 1, 2006

Quote from Rearden Metal:

That's probably not bad advice for a first date...
But- just add this little rule: You MUST make at least a token physical move on her before the conclusion of the second date. Otherwise, you've bought yourself a one-way ticket into the dreaded 'friend zone'. Anyone disagree?

If she finds you attractive, then you can do anything you want as long as it's not obnoxious, and she'll still want to sleep with you. All these "dating rules" only matter if a woman is not initially that attracted to you, or if you are chasing a woman who has a boyfriend or husband already.

IMO it's better to spend your time & effort approaching a lot of women, and within 30 seconds work out is she remotely attracted to you. If not then move on until you find one that is. If you go only for women that show interest in you, your hitrate should be 80% or more just by acting yourself.

Pabst · Jul 1, 2006

Quote from Cutten:

If she finds you attractive, then you can do anything you want as long as it's not obnoxious, and she'll still want to sleep with you. All these "dating rules" only matter if a woman is not initially that attracted to you, or if you are chasing a woman who has a boyfriend or husband already.

IMO it's better to spend your time & effort approaching a lot of women, and within 30 seconds work out is she remotely attracted to you. If not then move on until you find one that is. If you go only for women that show interest in you, your hitrate should be 80% or more just by acting yourself.

I love it when one applies rational statistics to real life. You hit it right on the head, Cutton. Sounds like sulli's chick already felt a connection to him before their first "official" date. Guy's waste too much time, money and emotional effort trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. (no pun intended) It seldom works..........

Rearden Metal · Jul 2, 2006

Quote from Cutten:

If she finds you attractive, then you can do anything you want as long as it's not obnoxious, and she'll still want to sleep with you.

I don't agree. Obnoxiousness works very well with a large portion of young (under 22) hotties. When I was younger, and I felt like it, I'd pull a variety of 'Tom Green' like stunts-

Going up to a panhandler and asking for 80 cents for the bus.

OR

Going up to a book store worker and saying "I found Windows '98 for dummies, and I found 'An idiot's guide to Windows '98.' But, can you help me find Windows '98 for complete fucking morons? Thank you, I'd appreciate it."

IIRC, pulling those kind of stunts was helpful in parting the hottie from her panties. Also: If she grew up under an abusive father/stepfather OR she's a perfect ten, you won't get anywhere without being a bit mean to her.

EqtTrdr · Jul 2, 2006

Quote from Rearden Metal:

I don't agree. Obnoxiousness works very well with a large portion of young (under 22) hotties. When I was younger, and I felt like it, I'd pull a variety of 'Tom Green' like stunts-

Going up to a panhandler and asking for 80 cents for the bus.

OR

Going up to a book store worker and saying "I found Windows '98 for dummies, and I found 'An idiot's guide to Windows '98.' But, can you help me find Windows '98 for complete fucking morons? Thank you, I'd appreciate it."

IIRC, pulling those kind of stunts was helpful in parting the hottie from her panties. Also: If she grew up under an abusive father/stepfather OR she's a perfect ten, you won't get anywhere without being a bit mean to her.

110% correct imo

its the only way to score with the under 22 crowd..

read the book "How to be the Jerk women love"

great info and works 99% of the time

There is truth to the saying "Nice guys finish last"

AAAintheBeltway · Jul 2, 2006

Quote from Cutten:

If she finds you attractive, then you can do anything you want as long as it's not obnoxious, and she'll still want to sleep with you. All these "dating rules" only matter if a woman is not initially that attracted to you, or if you are chasing a woman who has a boyfriend or husband already.

IMO it's better to spend your time & effort approaching a lot of women, and within 30 seconds work out is she remotely attracted to you. If not then move on until you find one that is. If you go only for women that show interest in you, your hitrate should be 80% or more just by acting yourself.

Totally accurate advice from someone who obviously knows his way around the ladies.

Women know within the first 20-30 seconds of meeting you if they are going to hump you. Trying to change her mind is usually not worth the effort. Even if successful, it lands you in a situation where she will always have the upper hand.

Thunderdog · Jul 5, 2006

Everything I know about women wouldn't fill a thimble. That aside, 2 prior posts resonate particularly well:

Quote from Cutten:

...IMO it's better to spend your time & effort approaching a lot of women, and within 30 seconds work out is she remotely attracted to you. If not then move on until you find one that is. If you go only for women that show interest in you, your hitrate should be 80% or more just by acting yourself.

Anything else is like fighting a trend that it not likely to change. Why invite pain into your life?

Quote from maxpi:

I was broke when I met my wife. I had no car. We used to take the bus from the San Fernando Valley to Hollywood and walk around, I would buy her cheap jewelry and we had a lot of fun. There was no driving hassle, we could enjoy the time together right from the start to the end of the day.

In my opinion, it doesn't get better than this.

Mike805 · Jul 5, 2006

Quote from Cutten:

If she finds you attractive, then you can do anything you want as long as it's not obnoxious, and she'll still want to sleep with you. All these "dating rules" only matter if a woman is not initially that attracted to you, or if you are chasing a woman who has a boyfriend or husband already.

IMO it's better to spend your time & effort approaching a lot of women, and within 30 seconds work out is she remotely attracted to you. If not then move on until you find one that is. If you go only for women that show interest in you, your hitrate should be 80% or more just by acting yourself.

Great post.

A woman will let you know quickly if she is attracted to you. If you can't figure this out (or are unsure) within a few minutes then shes not interested or you've got other issues going on... like a trade gone bad, get out and move on.

Dating is silly. Its a show of courtesey and form - it has absolutely nothing to do with attraction, love, sex or lust from the woman's perspective - she is trying to get a read on your motives, she is attempting to trust you - be honest to a fault (that's my strategy anyway). Tell her shes attractive. DO NOT TOUCH until she touches you. Simple rule. Let her make any and all physical gestures. Stimulate her with conversation (helps if you're somewhat intelligent). That's what works for nice girls anyways.