yes i too have the same experience...making money is easy,keeping it is impossible.yes its very hard to meet real traders, cos i am dying to meet someone who trades for real and is consistent in his trades. At the least i can compare my methods and weaknesses and learn. Most of all i will get the conviction that i am a trader and not a gambler. There are situations where trades go against you and that shakes your bedrock. At the moment as i reply yo this forum, i just placed Es trades at 2715.25 and sold at 2719.75 x 10 contracts and its pretty neat money for 15 minutes of trading. But deep down i dont feel the satisfaction because i know there will be trades where i will gamble the winnings away.
i once made 200 usd into 20000 usd in one trading day.....but if you do not understand the market, this does not mean anything.
see my post no 49 above in this thread